Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ is a captivating storyteller. With grace, magnetism and genuine wisdom, she writes about love, loss and the possibility of redemption. Stay with me (2017) is a tragicomic novel on the clash of generations, disrupted traditions, and the roles assigned to each sex in contemporary Nigeria. Are you asking yourself the new existential question: to touch or not to touch? Find the sincere words of Ayọ̀bámi’s Some Notes on Longing, in the Musing piece of Extra Extra n°18.